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Polycules in the Therapy Room: Skills for Supporting Complex Relationship Networks
Polycules in therapy require more than couples models with extra chairs. This guide equips therapists with evidence-based tools for mapping networks, navigating boundaries, repairing conflicts, and supporting complex non-monogamous relationship systems with skill and care.

Sarah Wolfer, LICSW
5 days ago7 min read
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Polyamory as Liberation: Radical Love for Multiply Marginalized Queer Folx
Explore how polyamory as liberation empowers queer, trans, and non-binary communities to resist oppressive systems, reclaim cultural roots, and create expansive, justice-centered ways of loving.

Sarah Wolfer, LICSW
Aug 137 min read
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The Five Pillars of Trauma-Informed Care in Non-Monogamy
Trauma-informed care in non-monogamy isn't "regular trauma work plus extra partners." It's a deeply intentional practice that integrates safety, consent, and cultural humility with the real-world complexity of polycules, metamours, co-parents, and chosen family. Research and lived experience both show that with the right scaffolding, non-monogamy can support healing instead of re-enacting old wounds.

Sarah Wolfer, LICSW
Aug 812 min read
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Catalysts of Change: How Timing Supercharges Ketamine-Assisted Therapy and Why This is Important for Queer and Non-Monogamous Clients
Discover how ketamine-assisted therapy unlocks a time-limited neuroplastic window for lasting change. Learn why timing matters and how Courageous You supports queer, non-monogamous, neurodivergent, and kinky clients in healing on their own terms.

Sarah Wolfer, LICSW
Aug 57 min read
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Is It the Relationship Structure or the Relationship Skills? Challenging the Monogamy-Superiority Myth
The monogamy-superiority myth is a pervasive assumption that monogamous relationships are inherently more stable, intimate, or emotionally safe. However, the 2025 meta-analysis by Anderson et al. analyzed 35 studies with over 24,000 participants and found no significant differences in relationship satisfaction or sexual satisfaction between monogamous and non-monogamous individuals.

Sarah Wolfer, LICSW
Jul 255 min read
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How to Vet a Non-Monogamous Affirming Therapist: A Guide for Polyamorous and Open Clients
Finding a therapist who truly gets non-monogamy shouldn’t feel like a high-stakes scavenger hunt. But for many polyamorous and open folks, that’s exactly what it is. Too often, therapy becomes the place where you end up explaining your relationship style instead of receiving support for what brought you in. It can be exhausting, invalidating, and even harmful. The good news? You can take control of the search.

Sarah Wolfer, LICSW
Jul 183 min read
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